No.Regrets.Dating
A card handed off at a Boston party
Sat · Back Bay

◍ Take them anywhere in the US · Est. 2026

Stop
playing
chicken.

Minimal swiping,
no apps,
real world first.

Build your card →
◍ This week's challenge: hand out 3 during a night out w/ friends.◍ Sick of dating apps? Bring a stack to the bar this weekend.◍ Get off the apps. Meet someone in the real world.◍ One card. One scan. One shot at something real.◍ This week's challenge: hand out 3 during a night out w/ friends.◍ Sick of dating apps? Bring a stack to the bar this weekend.◍ Get off the apps. Meet someone in the real world.◍ One card. One scan. One shot at something real.◍ This week's challenge: hand out 3 during a night out w/ friends.◍ Sick of dating apps? Bring a stack to the bar this weekend.◍ Get off the apps. Meet someone in the real world.◍ One card. One scan. One shot at something real.◍ This week's challenge: hand out 3 during a night out w/ friends.◍ Sick of dating apps? Bring a stack to the bar this weekend.◍ Get off the apps. Meet someone in the real world.◍ One card. One scan. One shot at something real.

You saw them.

You didn't say anything.

You thought about them for a week

while you swiped through strangers…

◍ An interactive

Choose your fate.

Alone, wondering.You walked past.Your eyes meet.You hand them your card.Together laughing.

Your eyes meet.

One second. The whole street goes quiet.

← alonechoose your fatetogether →

No.Regrets.Dating is the bridge

between the meet-cute and the first date.

A calm space to get to know someone,

before you share a single private detail.

◍ How it works (from your perspective)

Five steps. Minimal swiping.

spotted across the bar
spotted across the bar
i
Meet.

You meet someone in person and feel a spark.

cocktails · first hello
cocktails · first hello
ii
Connect.

Hand them your card — anyone can scan it, they don't have to be a member.

the scan · your face on it
the scan · your face on it
iii
Scan.

They scan, answer some questions, and request to match.

home · that message
home · that message
iv
Match.

You review their profile and choose to approve or pass.

first video call
first video call
v
Chat.

Chat opens right away. Text, call on demand, or book a 15-min slot.

◍ The object

A card you'd keep.

Polaroid format. Heavy stock. One QR code, unique to you. Front says hello. Back does the rest.

Mayathoughtyou werecute.NO.REGRETS.DATING. ♡ BOSTON
NO.REGRETS.DATING.Be your ownmatchmaker.Maya, 28♡FUN FACTI make pasta from scratch on Sundays.QRno.regrets.dating.comSCAN ME

Drag to spin · double-tap to flip

◍ The feed — vol. 03

No.Regrets cards in the real world.

Field snapshots. Bars, cafés, back pockets. Printed here for the record.

◍ Field notes

Real people, real rooms, no infinite scroll.

— no.regrets.dating.

Scanning a card at the bar.
Scanning a card at the barin the wild

◍ Safety brief

Every card carries a verified identity, every scan leaves a trace.

— no.regrets.dating.

Scanned, mid-conversation.
Scanned, mid-conversationin the wild

◍ Etiquette

Compliment them, hand them your card, smile, then walk away. The card does the talking.

— no.regrets.dating.

Card, back pocket, ready.
Card, back pocket, readyin the wild

← swipe the polaroids →

◍ The cards

Thirty cards.
$1 or less a shot.

Pick a membership. First pack ships with signup. Reorder from your dashboard. No auto-shipping.

Basic.

$10/mo

$30 / 30-card pack

  • 30 cards shipped with signup
  • Profile with bio + up to 2 photos
  • Unlimited video calls in chat
  • AI wingmate date ideas
  • Background check on every match
  • 5-day post-match chat

Premium.

$25/mo

$20 / 30-card pack

  • Everything in Basic
  • Expanded profile (5 photos, bio, interests)
  • Resurrect 1 expired chat / month
  • 7-day post-match chat
  • +24h chat extension

Membership covers the platform. Card packs are one-time charges. 30 cards each, billed only when you order.

Build your card →

◍ memo · no.regrets.dating.

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◍ Safety & privacy

Verified-first.
Privacy-first.

  • Verified by ID.

    Real names, real ages. ID + selfie + background check at signup.

  • Two-tries max.

    A person is capped at two submissions to you, ever. Decline once and they're permanently restricted. Rotate your QR anytime.

  • Selfie + video before meeting.

    A selfie at scan confirms the scanner is who you met. An optional in-app video call before you meet again. No phone numbers shared.

  • Nothing by accident.

    You approve every introduction. Quietly. On your own time.

  • No location, no SMS.

    We never collect GPS, device location, or phone numbers. No ad-tech remarketing, no audience building, just IP-anonymized Google Analytics to measure the site.

  • Your data is yours.

    ID photos auto-deleted within 3 days of verification. Never sold, rented, or licensed. Female-founded, membership-funded.

◍ See how we stack up vs typical dating apps↓
GPS / location tracking

No.Regrets.Dating

Never collected

Typical apps

Collected continuously, often in background

Phone number required

No.Regrets.Dating

Never. No SMS, ever.

Typical apps

Required at signup; used for marketing & SMS

Third-party ad networks

No.Regrets.Dating

None. No ad SDKs, no remarketing pixels.

Typical apps

Embedded across the app

Sells or shares data

No.Regrets.Dating

Never sold, rented, or licensed

Typical apps

Shared with advertisers & data brokers

ID photo retention

No.Regrets.Dating

Auto-deleted within 3 days of verification

Typical apps

Retained indefinitely on company servers

Identity verification

No.Regrets.Dating

ID + selfie + background check, required

Typical apps

Optional or absent for most users

Business model

No.Regrets.Dating

Membership-funded

Typical apps

Engagement + ads + paid boosts

"Typical dating apps" reflects common practices disclosed in major dating-app privacy policies. Not a claim about any specific competitor.

Safety notice: No.Regrets.Dating is a verification and introduction utility, not a guarantee. Registries and records sources can be incomplete; always use the precautions you'd take meeting any stranger. Full disclosure →

◍ Ambassadors

Become an ambassador.

An ambassador holding a No.Regrets card that reads 'The attractive people aren't on the apps.'

Host events, spread the word in your city, get perks and a personal promo code. Tell us a bit about yourself.

◍ Not a member yet?

Ask us anything.

Questions about how it works, safety, shipping, or anything else, send a note and a real human will get back to you.